forgive me pals, I just gotta ask this. Must one be jealous to prove he loves his spouse? I'm this kind of guy who don't really bother myself much about things that doesn't make sense. I'm dating this wonderful young lady, cute, smart and all that but she always complain that I don't care. I love her, I made that obvious to her and I think everything is going great, but she always complain that I don't care, and she said that because I don't act jealous. there was a time I posted her pix on my facebuk profile, then later removed it after a week, she asked me why I removed it and I said I just felt like, she complained that maybe my other girlfriends were the ones that told me to, I didn't say anything. about 3 days later, she uploaded a guy's pix on her fb n her bb dp, left it there for like 2weeks I didn't ask her who that was cos I knew her intention, then she burst out in annoyance saying I don't really love her, cos anytime she comes around, if she's pinging, chatting, making or receiving calls, I don't act surprised or suspicious, that she even uploaded a guy's pix and I didn't say anything. she left my place in tears, cos she wouldn't be convinced that I care about her. this is someone I really feel comfortable with and hope to build a home with, but all those jealousy and insecure attributes are just not my things. are those really necessary before she can feel loved? help out pals..