There is girl i met in one of d social ntwrks.She's 20 a student in 300level studyin law in one of deze priv8 uni n am 28 a fresh graduate n we've knwn for a year plus nw. We started chatin n in d long we xchanged numbers but funny enuf she gave me d impression dat am d only one she had eva given her number to in a social ntwrk.Dat she dsnt hv time for guys,Dat she dsnt call guys wit her unit,dat if she wants to tlk if she flash n u dnt call bck it ends dere.Most times i call her at nite so we cld spend somtime on fone cos we ar distant n most times she wldnt pick.Sometimes wen i needed her attention she wld tell me she's busy n i wld jst knock it off.One mistke i dnt make is to tell a girl am frm a wealthy home until i discover who she is. So,she kept givin me dis 'i dnt care attitude' n somtyms we wld quarell n wont tlk to each oda for wks.As a mature mind i wld scold her n after much i wld advice her n mke her c reasns to life dan jst bin unecessarily ignorant. To me, i dnt c anytin gud or worthwhile goin btwn us so i kept my cool. D matter nw is dat,recently dis girl carry love wey full 14feet container dey follow me up n dwn.As in,she nw calls up to 10times in a day,if i dnt return her calls she sends me airtime,she nw wants my attention,she nw wants to b d gud girl dat i hv always want her to be.She changed to d xtent dat evrybdy in her house noticed d change in her n she tld her mum n brothers about me dat am d brain behind her change.she nw confesses dat i am a big plus to her life n she jst cnt do witout me n dat she's stil a virgin n she wld even want me to disvirgin her if i so wish dat she dsnt mind. I ws so shocked! But d worst of it all is dat, 'I dont hv her time anymor,no feelins,no passion,no lov for her again n i opened up n told her d truth but she wont listen.She said if i dnt accept her she might kill herself n i asked to suit herself.She later realised dat her threats are nt changing my stand on d matter she nw opened up to me dat she cnt let any guy reap d gud tings n positive change i imbibed in her dat i deserve her n she's willin to do anytin to please me. Presently she's sick n series of tests have been carried out n their family doctor told her dat notin is wrong wit her. I feel am d reason y she's down. Gosh!Wat do u guys tink should be d solution to dis?