We started dating wen I was 22yrs old,he tried havin sex wit me den nd found out I was a virgin,he asked me wot I wanted,I told him I wanted 2 wait,he respected dat,he 2 spain wen I was 23yrs old,nd since den we have gud communication,but my people,u kn how it is 2 date a guy abroad,a lot of people wil discourage u,so I met dis oda guy nd in d process of d datin he disvirgined me at 25,we broke up after he found out abut d guy abroad nd asked me 2 break up wit him nd I refused,d biggie now is dat I didn't tell my BF in spain dat am no longer a virgin,I will b 27 in august,he has stayed away 4 4yrs,he wants his people 2 cum 4 d 1st introduction by august nd he said he wuld b home by december,so we will marry,I stil love him dearly nd want 2 marry him,but I don't kn wether 2 tell him am no longer a vigil b4 he cums nd b4 his people cum 2 my place 4 any introduction,or wait till he cums home,cos I wuld like 2 tell him face 2 face so he will see how sowie I am,I have tried 2 make him stop d introduction till he cums,but he got angry nd disagreed,plz wot do I do?