Pal i am in hot sweat. My mother in law is living with us and her attitude is tearing me down. She is in control of everything. She decides what we should cook and do. I love her but she is too involved in our life that my husband has even started behaving funny. When he wants something it is the mom that he will ask. Wat pained me most was last night he did not come home, the next day the mum defended him right in my eyes that he had to go somewhere early in the morning. I am just tearing apart. It's like my husband is under a spell