Please ***** please help my friend by posting this and he need the idea of this group because they say that he that ask want to know.

i have a friend who is in trouble and this is his story.

He just marry and for long the dating and now is marriage the in-law did not call him to tell him that before their will come to his house he will have to invite them to his house and by doing so he will have to cook not just a food but food that is rich and if they are going that he will have to give them money that is from N8,000 upward and and they have to bless his house before going. Right now his just hearing it for the first time yesterday and right now his angry with the family and his wife and the worst of it all is that they did not call him to tell him but they call the wife to tell his wife before his wife break the news to him. And if he did not do it they will never come to his and if they will come they will not eat any thing in his house and when they will go they will go without anything or drink anything in his house but if he will provide all they say that his their tradition then they will come and bless the house then go with the money and other things that may come with it.
And to ask UMUANYAMELE UMOHIAUGU NOGOR OKPELA L.G.A IN IMO STATE. is this the way of their tradition?
please help it may be you.