Hi pals...Am writing from Calgary, Canada and I would want to share my problems to those with mature minds for possible advise. I have been married for about 2yrs now and I love my wife so much, she is Nigerian also and would do anything to keep her to myself, I have been managing my faithfulness to my vows since our union even with the heavy temptations around. The problem is the my wife seems to be too weak sexually but very active in all other aspect of her life as she is hardworking, respectful and can talk very well but when we go to bed it will always be one complain or the other that sometimes we just stay at home together over 2-3 weeks without sex. Sometimes when i go out i get entangled by the things i see out there and to be sincere there has been several things i did outside and few weeks ago i caught up with a lady that approached me even when i said i was married she never wanted to let go off me I managed to cut ties with her not to hurt my wife and it went out well.
On resolving issues together as couples I explained everything to her and how I feel about everything but she said some comments that got me a little bit furious stating, if sex is food that we eat everyday? that she can stay without sex. That made me thought of going out to meet the numerous women pestering me but I want that to be the last thing on my mind now.......
For those of you who understand my situation whats your advise for me? Thanx!