Hello guys. So I need some serious advice on my situation. I am a very attractive 25 year old girl dating a very attractive 32 year old guy. We both have jobs and are doing well on our own. He is everything I have ever dreamed of and on top of that because of him I am closer to God than I have ever been in my life. He pushes me in the right direction and makes sure I do well in all I do. He even keeps a good relationship with my mother and feels free to talk to her about serious issues. Sounds wonderful right? Here are the problems. 1) My whole family has been pressuring us to get married but he doesn't want to hear about it. We have been dating for 2 and a half years now and he is still not ready. 2) He tells people the reason he will not marry me yet is because I don't know how to cook food from his country (liberia), but God knows I am trying so hard to learn. He also complains that I am over weight and that I need to get closer to his 9 year old daughter. Because of him I have joined a very strict diet program and have lost about 20 lbs in the last 1 month, I am also trying to get close to his daughter (which is easy seeing how she and the baby mom also go to our church). 3) I have seen his ***** , chat, text and he has had "inappropriate" conversations with tons of girls! His excuse is that he is not physically touching them so it is not cheating. Am so sick of it! And everytime I confront him about it he has the audacity to tell me its my fault and if i were doing what i was supposed to do (acting like a wife and learning to cook his food) then he wouldnt. He also blames me for going through his phone and the whole fight turns on me for invading his privacy. My people I am exhausted with this relationship, it is literally draining me. Don't get me wrong I love this guy to death and I know he does too. When we are on good terms we are more than best friends! The whole city knows about us and the church is also pressuring him to get married and settle down. So my question is what can I do to possibly satisfy his requirements? And what do I do about the women issue? Do I just let it go in hopes that he will change, cuz that is my #1 prayer point when I pray daily.