I am married to a caring but very proud man. His pride brings up quarrels at every point in time in our home. Im just so disturbed about the frequent misunderstandings even over unnecessary things.I try to neglect most of the time to no avail.Please tell me if this situation was really worth the conflict. Imagin yesterday i came back from work at 7pm,showered and we sat together in the seating room chatting.I asked him what he ate when he came back from work and what he would like to eat that night.He responded and said he doesn't feel like eating that night. I asked again after some time and he responded same.At 10pm i decided to start working on my thesis and you won't belief after a few minutes he went to the kitchen and took out stuffs from the fridge and asked me to make food for him.That was at about 10:30pm. I refused because i was so mad at that attitude so he started the cooking.I chosed not to help him because knowing whom he is, he could have only made a fool of me that night if i had gone to the kitchen after i had refused. My point was that i came back since asking what he would like to eat but he wouldn't respond only to get up when i want to study to ask me to cook.Up to this moment communication is not flowing between us.Now tell me, was he so right or do you think I over reacted? Wouldn't share my family issues with anyone, writing it here because it's anonymous. Ur candid opinion will save many situations like this.