hi pals..I have been dating my boyf for 5yrs now,for 3years he was loving and faithfull ,but for d last 2years he became something i cant explain,am still with him because i love him and i also think its because of stress not haveing a job,i have been paying his bills ,sometime send money to his family,i met a white guy 3yrs ago he says he want to date me but i should stop the dirty job i do,he promised to be paying all my bills untill i can get a better job,i stop d job not because i really wanted to date him but because i really hated d job i was doing,so we started dating,i never wanted to tell my boyfriend i feel he will be jealous,but i couldnt do it,i cant lie to him so i told him i met a whiteguy he says no problems since he will be paying my bills,everything was fine for a while untill he started complaining that he wanted to go into business since he couldnt find a job,i ask how much he says like 800,000,i lied to my white guy and he gave me 1,000,000 which i gave to my myboyfriend he was veryy happy and he promised to pay me back..we had little misunderstanding,and he refused to call me to say sorry,after two weeks he called i was really angry i didnt pick his calls.he didnt call me again after 1month and i was reallyy confused and i missed him,so i called but he didnt answer myy calls,so i called his friend,his friend told me he now had a newgirlf,i told his friend i will be coming the nextday, his friend call to tell him about my coming,myboyf called me that i shouldnt come to his house,if i come am coming to sleep out or go back,i was suprised to hear such words from him,i payed for that house he lives,he lives 5hrs distance from my city i didnt go because i cant face d shame of him not allowing me in while he should be d one to say sorry to me,after 2months his mum called me asking what is going on that her son called to introduce another girl to her but she refused saying i am her son,s wife to be,i explain everything to her,she call a family friend who live close to tthe son,the man was shocked he says myyfriends always talks about me been his love,his helper and all that,he say he has been seeing myy boyf with a lady older than him,he says he was thinking my boyf only wanted to go out with her since i dont live close he never knew what was going on,he told d mum they shouldnt allow that lady into their that she is bad news,anytime i call him,he will insult me telling me he is getting married soon,that shouldnt call him again,and eachtime he talks to me like that i feel like dieing,my white guy was always there for me for those three months,after his family talked to him,then he started calling me just to know how am doing,i was happy and at the same time sad,i couldnt bear it any more i went to his place i called his friend to come pick me at the train station,because his house is far from d station..when he saw me he was shocked,i meet the lady things in d house,we sleptt in the same bed but he didnt touch me,i was really angry because i havent slept with a guy without him holding me,even if nothing,i was like a stranger to him,he recieves the lady calls all night,and me crying i feel stupid and i wanted to go,but his friend s'wife begged me not to go anywhere that i cant labour for someone else to come enjoy ,,she says maybe the uses something for him because d lady is looking for a husband,a man i have been with for 5yrs he didnt talk about marriage ,now he sings it,his mum called that i should stay i try everything for him to make love to me,and he will be ok again,that night i cried my eyes out looking into his eyes,reminding him of how we ment,finally he grabed me,he was really hard on me he was like a new man to me,the next morning he cooked for me,he says he was sorry he didnt really know what got into him,the lady called him but he didnt answer ,i ask him to answer her call,he ask her to come carry her things from his house,i stayed with him for 2weeks then i left for my city to my white guy,