RESIGNED IF YOUR TIRED SAID MY BOSS: PLEASE ADVICE

Date: 11-05-2011 5:16 pm (12 years ago) | Author: ESTHER ENWEREM
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- at 11-05-2011 05:16 PM (12 years ago)
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I have been working with this man for four years and I agree with him to be coming to work by 8am and close by 6pm but I never close by 6pm I will stay till all the customer is gone then I will close, may be by 7:30pm or 8:00pm in the night. All the yrs I have been with him he hardly complain about my lateness to work thought I do come to work late (8:20am or 8:25am) sometimes in all this yr. My boss was too harsh that nobody could last with him a yr no matter how enduring you are. I started with him in 2007 when I did my three months industrial training in his office. My sister who could not endure his harshness towards his employee left without completing her IT. After my IT, I was detained by his so called manager who is the devil itself. I later left, in three months later. I see my phone ring, is my manager number telling me that the director want to see me. Two days later I went there, the manager asked me if I have any place I am working for now, I reply no. she said that the director said I should start work. Because I have no place I’m working then, I accepted the offer and start working with them. I carried this company along as if it is my father’s business; I risk my life by repairing minor electrical, generator and systems problem because of fear to report those problematic equipments to my director, I  also risking my life going home lately in the night. This work has taught me many experiences in life. My boss started my salary with N3, 000 (three thousand naira) and now he is paying me 8,000 (eight thousand naira). I receive all types of humiliation and names from the hand of his manager, all these I endured, I continued because of my family background but I can never denied my manager and my boss of sometimes do give money to support my self if I am traveling or going for an exam but after, what I receive from their hand (insults) is far more than me not receiving that money. It continued this way until all my fellow employee all ran away and I was left alone running this office because no body could stand the pressure in this office even new employed  workers ran away after two days of employment. 
Sometimes people do ask me if this man hold me with charm.
Sometime I use to cry, when ever I remember what I am passing through in that office
When ever He saw me eating he will think that I am squandering his money, except the ones he gave to me if any.
When ever my friends visit me he will shorn them never to come to his office again that they are all deceivers 
The way he treated his customers mostly male once sometimes scared them away
The shouting and harassing of his staffs scared customers away also.
If I close by 6pm as we agreed he get annoyed saying that I have grow wiser, and he will never tolerate it.  If you’re a male customer talking to me he will be think that your are toasting me, and will start harassing you or tell me to go and do this or the other which is not relevant just to make sure there is no simile on my face.
If I leave this office nobody will be able submit his or her life the way I did of which my boss is aware of.
The manager is gone living the office dry and the insult from her is past. Despite all the lapses in the office, I submit my effort to see the office grow, for I did not want the office to collapse in my hand.  Now the problem is my boss, his company is getting down as day draw by, and he has nothing to focus on the cause of his business downfall. He now complain of my lateness to work that if I am tired of working that I should resigned and he  keep on saying it  time without number. While the lapses started in the hand of his so called manager whom he trained in the university up to 300level before they separated.  Many others that I cannot put down here.I have made up my mind to live that place even if I don’t have any thing doing but at least for the peace of mind and my happiness

MY FELLOW NAIJAPALS ADVICE YOUR SISTER IN THIS CASE.
should I resigned before he sacked me and If I leave how will I survived? I need your opinions please give me advice you will give to your sister if she is in my shoe

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:16 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:23 PM (12 years ago)
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look for another job then if u cant endure..

or does he have something in mind for u? Huh?

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:23 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- truenaija2 at 11-05-2011 05:25 PM (12 years ago)
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dont resign my dear what u have is a virtue , continuing being the way you r it will take very far in life, dont run faster than your legs you will fall down, atleast he pays you ur salary, he appreciates what u do but u dont know, i have a sister like u and i am the opposite of my sister her life went smoothly and i am always proud of her but i had problems with my temper , so u have a virtue continue like that
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:25 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kenolis at 11-05-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-05-2011 05:23 PM
look for another job then if u cant endure..

or does he have something in mind for u? Huh?

since i know you na now you talk like  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- olumbareal at 11-05-2011 05:28 PM (12 years ago)
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I know its not easy but i cant stand that kind of person ooo, its not about the salary you should be happy wif yah job too. Its high time you quit the job and move on, dats exploitation.
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kenolis on 11-05-2011 05:27 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-05-2011 05:23 PM
look for another job then if u cant endure..

or does he have something in mind for u? Huh?

since i know you na now you talk like  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

like better person abi..yeye guy

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 11-05-2011 05:31 PM (12 years ago)
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na wa oo i no life its self is nt easy sm times one hv to go through difficulties b4 making it, i will only advice u start looking for another job so u wnt be idle if u leave there
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 11-05-2011 05:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: olumbareal on 11-05-2011 05:28 PM
I know its not easy but i cant stand that kind of person ooo, its not about the salary you should be happy wif yah job too. Its high time you quit the job and move on, dats exploitation.
Come to think of it the favor market is so competitive just continue to endure i know something good is coming yah way.
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:34 PM (12 years ago)
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come to think of it poster? what kind of job is that that u are earning 8 thousand naira..huh? 8k?
with ur certificate? cos from ur post u did ur industrial training with the  firm..

Thats a chiicken change for a 10hrs job..
gosh i no fit ooo

abi na recharge card u dey sell for am?
tell me the kind of job, then i go no how i go start to talk..


Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 11-05-2011 05:25 PM
dont resign my dear what u have is a virtue , continuing being the way you r it will take very far in life, dont run faster than your legs you will fall down, atleast he pays you ur salary, he appreciates what u do but u dont know, i have a sister like u and i am the opposite of my sister her life went smoothly and i am always proud of her but i had problems with my temper , so u have a virtue continue like that

let her resign.. haba..what kind of job is that...?

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esthmy at 11-05-2011 05:37 PM (12 years ago)
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as i am talking to u now, he does not respond my good morning dis days, i am getting more confuse
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:37 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- chiglamour4u at 11-05-2011 05:37 PM (12 years ago)
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lol sophia so d job go determine ur talk ni
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 11-05-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago)
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by nw u shld be looking for a job else where that place is where human being can stay except animals
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: esthmy on 11-05-2011 05:16 PM
I have been working with this man for four years and I agree with him to be coming to work by 8am and close by 6pm but I never close by 6pm I will stay till all the customer is gone then I will close, may be by 7:30pm or 8:00pm in the night. All the yrs I have been with him he hardly complain about my lateness to work though I do come to work late (8:20am or 8:25am) sometimes in all this yr. My boss was too harsh that nobody could last with him a yr no matter how enduring you are. I started with him in 2007 when I did my three months industrial training in his office. My sister who could not endure his harshness towards his employee left without completing her IT. After my IT, I was detained by his so called manager who is the devil itself. I later left, in three months later. I see my phone ring, is my manager number telling me that the director want to see me. Two days later I went there, the manager asked me if I have any place I am working for now, I reply no. she said that the director said I should start work. Because I have no place I’m working then, I accepted the offer and start working with them. I carried this company along as if it is my father’s business; I risk my life by repairing minor electrical, generator and systems problem because of fear to report those problematic equipments to my director, I  also risking my life going home lately in the night. This work has thought me many experiences in life. My boss started my salary with N3, 000 (three thousand naira) and now he is paying me 8,000 (eight thousand naira). I receive all types of humiliation and names from the hand of his manager, all these I endured, I continued because of my family background but I can never denied my manager and my boss of sometimes do give money to support my self if I am traveling or going for an exam but after, what I receive from their hand (insults) is far more than me not receiving that money. It continue this way until all my fellow employee all ran away and I was left alone running this office because no body could stand the pressure in this office even new employed  workers ran away after two days of employment. 
Sometimes people do ask me if this man hold me with charm.
Sometime I use to cry, when ever I remember what I am passing through in that office
When ever He saw me eating he will think that I am squandering his money, except the once he gave to me if any.
When ever my friends visit me he will shorn them never to come to his office again that they are all deceivers 
The way he treated his customers mostly male once sometimes scared them away
The shouting and harassing of his staffs scared customers away also.
If I close by 6pm as we agreed he get annoyed saying that I have grow wiser, and he will never tolerate it.  If you’re a male customer talking to me he will be think that your are toasting me, and will start harassing you or tell me to go and do this or the other which is not relevant just to make sure there is no simile on my face.
If I leave this office nobody will be able submit his or her life the way I did of which my boss is aware of.
The manager is gone living the office dry and the insult from her is past. Despite all the lapses in the office, I submit my effort to see the office grow, for I did not want the office to collapse in my hand.  Now the problem is my boss, his company is getting down as day draw by, and he has nothing to focus on the cause of his business downfall. He now complain of my lateness to work that if I am tired of working that I should resigned and he  keep on saying it  time without number. While the lapses started in the hand of his so called manager whom he trained in the university up to 300level before they separated.  Many others that I cannot put down here.I have made up my mind to live that place even if I don’t have any thing doing but at least for the peace of mind and my happiness

MY FELLOW NAIJAPALS ADVICE YOUR SISTER IN THIS CASE.
should I resigned before he sacked me and If I live how will I survived? I need your opinions please give me advice you will give to your sister if she is in my shore


how much wey dem dey give u wey be say u dey work for 10hrs-12hrs sef a day for a month..
den when month end dem go carry..8 1000 naira note gv u?

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:39 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: esthmy on 11-05-2011 05:37 PM
as i am talking to u now, he does not respond my good morning dis days, i am getting more confuse

wen month end.. take ya salary, even if na ABA made slippers..buy dey sell
or u open fone boot ya own

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esthmy at 11-05-2011 05:45 PM (12 years ago)
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my job there is Cybercafe attendant (internet services)
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:45 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 11-05-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 11-05-2011 05:36 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 11-05-2011 05:25 PM
dont resign my dear what u have is a virtue , continuing being the way you r it will take very far in life, dont run faster than your legs you will fall down, atleast he pays you ur salary, he appreciates what u do but u dont know, i have a sister like u and i am the opposite of my sister her life went smoothly and i am always proud of her but i had problems with my temper , so u have a virtue continue like that

let her resign.. haba..what kind of job is that...?

sophie nawa oo see the kind advice wey you dey give, poster what kind of job where u expecting , even graduate with certificate never get work ,i have a lot of experiences and i have given u the best advice , a word they say is enough for the wise
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 11-05-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago)
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if u are good with d computer then u hv good chances of getting another Job
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 11-05-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago)
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is there no other job u can get apart from this job of urs dat ur being paid 8k?

What did u read in  sch? are u a graduate? or the I.T u did is the other kind of industrail trail training that u use to learn work and get retained

Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olumbareal at 11-05-2011 05:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 11-05-2011 05:37 PM
lol sophia so d job go determine ur talk ni
May be, its annoying sha. Some boss sef Lips Sealed
Posted: at 11-05-2011 05:50 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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