How To Attract Men After A Divorce

Date: 28-07-2011 6:16 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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Getting back into the dating scene after a divorce can feel intimidating. After ending a marriage, you may not feel your best emotionally or physically, which can hamper your self-esteem. If you want to attract men after a divorce, work through these feelings–and get out and make some connections with available men. It’s normal to feel apprehensive, but with time and a good support system, you’ll be back in the game in no time.

Step 1
Turn to friends and family for a support system. Go out on the town with your girlfriends, have weekly dinner meet-ups and call a trusted connection when you need to. “Facing things alone can take a toll on you,” says says clinical psychologist Michael S. Broder, author of “The Art of Living Single.” “Friends can help you see that dating doesn’t have to be so serious,” he says.



Step 2
Improve your physical appearance to feel more attractive. Have your hair done, or get a manicure or a facial. Splurge and buy a new dress. Exercise regularly, and eat right to look and feel your best.

Go out and meet people. Don’t hide in your house. Take a class, do volunteer work or join a book club. Ask your friends to set you up on a date, or sign up with an online dating website.

Step 4
Flirt with the men you meet. “Even if you think you’re not so hot or could stand to lose a few pounds, get out there on a blind date, wink at someone online or flirt at a party, and the compliments will come, boosting your confidence big-time,” says sex educator Sari Locker, author of “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Amazing Sex.”

Step 5
Prepare a list of all your positive qualities, and hang it in a place where you will see the list everyday, suggests Bruce Fisher, Robert Alberti, and Virginia M. Satir in “Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends.” Read this list aloud to yourself daily. Share the list with friends and talk about your self-image, as well as the way your friends see you. Make a similar list of positive traits on which you’d like to work.

Step 6
Find time to enjoy all the things you couldn’t do while you were married. Take up a hobby you’ve always wanted. Enjoy life. “Be active; don’t feel like your whole life is on hold”, says psychologist Broder.

Tips and Warnings
* Make a list detailing what kind of men you want to attract, suggests life coach Mike Angulo.

* Watch out for men looking to take advantage of your fragile state. “There are a whole lot of guys out there who think that because you’re lonely, you’ll be easy to hit on,” says Judith Wallerstein, author of “What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During, and After Divorce.”


source:livestrong.com


Posted: at 28-07-2011 06:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- 50scent at 28-07-2011 06:17 PM (12 years ago)
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- xena15 at 28-07-2011 06:23 PM (12 years ago)
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I don hear am

Posted: at 28-07-2011 06:23 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 28-07-2011 06:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 28-07-2011 06:23 PM
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hear what if u dare file for divorce  Sad Sad

Posted: at 28-07-2011 06:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 28-07-2011 06:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Wetin go happen?
U be d wrongest husband 4 dis world!

Posted: at 28-07-2011 06:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 28-07-2011 06:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 28-07-2011 06:39 PM
Wetin go happen?
U be d wrongest husband 4 dis world!


See u r nothing but a jealous woman
suo , u dont want a rival isnt it  Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 28-07-2011 06:56 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 28-07-2011 07:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Is diz a way of encouraging divorce or wat Huh? I dont understand

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- 50scent at 28-07-2011 07:09 PM (12 years ago)
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jossy4reall anyway hope ur girlfriend read this and divorce
so i can have upper iweka road hand  Grin Grin Grin

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- feyee at 28-07-2011 07:10 PM (12 years ago)
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- 50scent at 28-07-2011 07:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: feyee on 28-07-2011 07:10 PM
Tongue Tongue Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Huh? Huh?


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- interpo77 at 28-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 28-07-2011 07:09 PM
jossy4reall anyway hope ur girlfriend read this and divorce
so i can have upper iweka road hand  Grin Grin Grin
upper iweka dey far na,  take the whole omaba phase 1 n 2
if u no ok,take old and  new mkt rd
Posted: at 28-07-2011 07:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- interpo77 at 28-07-2011 07:33 PM (12 years ago)
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all these point can help only if u re not the most affected
Posted: at 28-07-2011 07:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 28-07-2011 07:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 28-07-2011 07:09 PM
jossy4reall anyway hope ur girlfriend read this and divorce
so i can have upper iweka road hand  Grin Grin Grin

Unfortunately I dont have a gal friend,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,am in adult seminary school Grin Grin

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- 50scent at 28-07-2011 07:45 PM (12 years ago)
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interpo77 go n vote for 50 as your personality  Sad Sad Sad

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- FlyMamacita at 28-07-2011 07:58 PM (12 years ago)
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For divorced ppl >>>>>>>>>>> am out.
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- ezecyyyy at 28-07-2011 08:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Okay.
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- giftmurphy at 28-07-2011 08:07 PM (12 years ago)
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- interpo77 at 28-07-2011 08:24 PM (12 years ago)
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