He lost interest in me or may be in sex

Date: 29-07-2011 3:10 pm (12 years ago) | Author: taiwo florence
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- at 29-07-2011 03:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Please friends on this forum, all i needed is your advice please. Next week will be the fifth year we have wedded without a child, actually he provided all my needs neither does he refused whatever i asked from him, but one thing. He's just busy with work, work and work all the time; at some point i thought may be he is an impotent. When i asked his friends they says he is not, also some of his closest friend has talked to him.

if someone tells me about this i will totally make jest of such person or rather call her a liar, cos i wasnt expecting such to ever existed; that a man who has no child yet, wouldnt want to have sex with his wife. He does not want to have sex with  me anymore, or should i say he lost interest in it. I have made necessary report to his parents and since then there is no change. Have cried, urge him to tell me what happened he said nothing, but i know there is something.

What should i do?


Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:10 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- precita at 29-07-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago)
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e fit be say him na homo dats wen una hear people say testin be4 marriage is life saving una thk say na Hiv test along
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:19 PM (12 years ago)
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well i do not know, because i'm so confused
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:19 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:22 PM (12 years ago)
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It is not in the place of his friends to determine if he is impotent or not........maybe you have to use your 'woman power' to make him see reason with you as to want to visit the hospital to know what is actually wrong........appeal to him on the need to start having kids as you have limited time.......maybe he would listen to you......good luck

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:22 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster, maybe you should use this 5th anniversary of ur wedding to drive home your needs/demand.....use it well.....do something unusual to mark it.......

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- moniconyez at 29-07-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago)
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E GO BETTER, GOD DEY
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 29-07-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago)
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tell her to go away with her sorrowful complaint  Grin Grin

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago)
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divineproject i have used all this means i know but no progress, like he is up to something which is unknown to me
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago)
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50scent who is this guy
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:36 PM (12 years ago)
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moniconyez thanks I hope God intervene
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- 50scent at 29-07-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago)
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tflo divorce your so called man, get your ass in here

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago)
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50scent you must be out of your mind
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:42 PM (12 years ago)
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Have you talked to your pastor/Imam?

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:42 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:37 PM
tflo divorce your so called man, get your ass in here

Stop this your yeye talk.......this is serious business........tell her something reasonable or get your ass outta here.......

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 29-07-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2011 03:43 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:37 PM
tflo divorce your so called man, get your ass in here
Stop this your yeye talk.......this is serious business........tell her something reasonable or get your ass outta here.......

Sweetheart, queen of my heart im sorry
i gotta get my ass out but kiss me first

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tflo at 29-07-2011 03:47 PM (12 years ago)
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divineproject, a woman like i cant just sit and watch i have reported to all necessary people around, i do not know i am so confused
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:47 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- cyril4christ at 29-07-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:33 PM
tell her to go away with her sorrowful complaint  Grin Grin

re u ok? why the harsh?u see someone is in pain and u re there talking trash,if u don't have a reasonable things to contribute to her, then e better u move on after reading it, than to talk nonsense,bc I normally know u as who never contributed nicely in a topic,which is very bad,  Angry
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- shaoyang at 29-07-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Why are women always thinking sex? allow the man to focus on sth that is occupying his mind jare..... u sef need to make the game look a lil bit tougher, be out of his reach for sometime so he will mis u & when he sees u he will have the urge to do it whatsoever u wanted. .......... even me sef if something is too lose and easy for me to do at all times believe me it will no longer worth anything to me and i won't be bothering to ask either. He is the one suppose to be begging for sex not u Angry
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:45 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2011 03:43 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:37 PM
tflo divorce your so called man, get your ass in here
Stop this your yeye talk.......this is serious business........tell her something reasonable or get your ass outta here.......

Sweetheart, queen of my heart im sorry
i gotta get my ass out but kiss me first

The person wey do you this thing don die........so make u manage urself like dat but no be for my body...iPad pikin like you

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:50 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 29-07-2011 03:48 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 29-07-2011 03:33 PM
tell her to go away with her sorrowful complaint  Grin Grin

re u ok? why the harsh?u see someone is in pain and u re there talking trash,if u don't have a reasonable things to contribute to her, then e better u move on after reading it, than to talk nonsense,bc I normally know u as who never contributed nicely in a topic,which is very bad,  Angry

Tell am well well sweetie.........

Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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