"Help! My Mother-In-Law Is Using My Wife Against Me"

Good day. Am sorry to bother you but I feel I have got to tell someone as experienced as you about my problem. And l have to make it as brief as possible, only bringing out the essentials. Well, I’m married with a baby girl that is about one year old. Though I’m not gainfully employed yet I am a graduate and I try as much as possible to make my wife happy and comfortable. One funny thing is that we only just did our traditional marriage last year March. All of a sudden there came a huge change in my wife’s behaviour. To the point that she started insinuating that I am having dates outside. Issues came to a head when at about seven to eight months after we had a “problem.” The problem like I did put in quotes would baffle you. Her grouse is that I should stop buying newspapers.

The same newspapers that I used to buy while we were still dating and she NEVER complained about, so why do so now? On this particular day that issues came to head, we (she, myself and our baby) were at her mother’s place. Her mother was there and heard all that her daughter said. I never did say a word. My presumed mother-in-law and her last daughter who is just in the final year of her study in the university joined forces with my wife to say so many things. At the end of the day, I had no choice but to leave the place. But before l left, my wife came to me again and heaped more insult on me. Till date I have discovered that my mother-in-law is in absolute support of the things happening between my wife and I. I have made some monetary payments into my wife’s account and notified her to confirm. But she never does notify me of the receipts. She does not call me. I do the calls. Sincerely speaking, l doubt if I still have iota of love for her. If not for my baby girl, I would have erased her number and mental picture from my mind.

What annoys me the most is when l recall what I went through all because of her. All the while that we were courting, my parents and siblings never approved of her. But I had to damn the consequences and went ahead with her and married her. All that we shared together in the past, she now has forgotten. I am mad, angry and pissed. What do l do?
Thank you for taking time to read this. Please I await your response, preferably through my email address. I do not want this to be published. She is gradually but steadily losing my love for her; l had never loved someone else before the way I love her. But I must say that she is giving me no choice but to re-direct my love to someone else that would appreciate and show same.
May God continue to guide you in your good endeavor to help troubled hearts.