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« posted : October 14, 2008, 03:39:44 PM » |
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Whatcha fink? Can you be friends with somebody that rejected you? Guyz will probably say no & I think the girls will say yes, as long as you know the boundary. What's the difference between guys and girls that would cause this different mindset? Feel free to air ur views
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« posted : October 14, 2008, 06:19:17 PM » |
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Answer to the Question:
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« posted : October 14, 2008, 06:59:07 PM » |
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It depends on ur level of maturity. No disrespect, but women r more matured than men r, hence they can be friends in such situation and men can't.
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« posted : October 14, 2008, 07:09:43 PM » |
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NO... no dey look her site at all After kissing a couple of time,robbling and finging  ... she come dey tell me say make we be just friends. |
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« posted : October 15, 2008, 08:15:58 AM » |
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Answer to the Question:
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and why not? After all u probably used to be friends |
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« posted : October 16, 2008, 07:34:43 AM » |
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well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to
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« posted : October 16, 2008, 10:53:28 AM » |
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well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to
so u would lose out a good friendship because u cant control urself?  |
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« posted : October 18, 2008, 03:22:00 PM » |
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Whatcha fink? Can you be friends with somebody that rejected you? Guyz will probably say no & I think the girls will say yes, as long as you know the boundary. What's the difference between guys and girls that would cause this different mindset? Feel free to air ur views
yes na y not |
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« posted : October 18, 2008, 03:40:45 PM » |
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well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to
so u would lose out a good friendship because u cant control urself? Young woman, Wrong perspective. U can't Control Love (Dat's if u really Know what Love is) Serious Attraction is just like Love |
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« posted : October 18, 2008, 03:48:28 PM » |
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Answer to the Question:
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and why not? After all u probably used to be friends Well, dat Boundary has been Crossed Already |
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« posted : October 21, 2008, 01:20:12 AM » |
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Oh,women r more maturd abi?mayb u meant to say smarter.u girls want to remain friends so that toy boy would always b ther as "plan B",incase of emergency..no be so?matured indeed!!!
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« posted : October 21, 2008, 01:32:29 AM » |
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If i hear say i just be friends with girl wen i de trip for.....for what?so she go de play wit my emotions anyhow she want?HELL NO!!!
If i genuinly like her,i'l free her&let fate decide..na i no gree,i no gree de make shirt tear
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« posted : October 21, 2008, 01:38:45 AM » |
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No you can't! It makes everything that much harder... I know I couldn't. You would need some space to get over him/her before you can be friends.
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« posted : October 21, 2008, 07:36:38 AM » |
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If your attracted to the person... You should try and open up to the person about how you feel.. you can be friends though
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Believe in yourself likewise in your friends....bcos It is the eyes of your friends that reviews ur trueself.
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« posted : October 21, 2008, 09:16:30 AM » |
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easy 4 she, not 4 he
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