Do you still relate with your ex?

Date: 14-07-2008 12:25 pm (15 years ago) | Author: olayemi oguntoye
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- at 14-07-2008 12:25 PM (15 years ago)
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I don't know it is right or wrong but i still relate with my ex-girl.  We both seperated 4 years ago and wr still talked.  Though she's married and with a kid now.  Sometimes I have to fight temptation not to ask for what we use to enjoy but anyone in here to share experience and any issue against it?


Posted: at 14-07-2008 12:25 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
- philomena87 at 14-07-2008 12:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 12:25 PM
I don't know it is right or wrong but i still relate with my ex-girl.  We both seperated 4 years ago and wr still talked.  Though she's married and with a kid now.  Sometimes I have to fight temptation not to ask for what we use to enjoy but anyone in here to share experience and any issue against it?

are u sure u are sayin the truth... is tis story real... Huh? Huh? well i dont think so.. Roll Eyes but u have to stop tat cos its not good and i know u know tat... Sad
Posted: at 14-07-2008 12:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yemmight at 14-07-2008 01:26 PM (15 years ago)
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@ philo

When I said we relate, we talked on phone, ask abouth lives and assistance.  I attended the naming of her babay last year.  But honestly I never had anything that have to do with sex, but sometimes temptations set in but i have been fithing those temptations.

Posted: at 14-07-2008 01:26 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- indie at 14-07-2008 01:32 PM (15 years ago)
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u no, i sort of suspected that  since this ? came from u it would be freaky.

you have not dissapointed me.

would u be talking with a married ex, dont get me wrong, u can invite her for your weddings and baby' birthday, but that, only if u can afford to look on her as just a friend.

dont go and do the one dat will hook u in the throat oh! God alone knows how u get urself into these situations
Posted: at 14-07-2008 01:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- philomena87 at 14-07-2008 01:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: indie on 14-07-2008 01:32 PM
u no, i sort of suspected that  since this ? came from u it would be freaky.

you have not dissapointed me.

would u be talking with a married ex, dont get me wrong, u can invite her for your weddings and baby' birthday, but that, only if u can afford to look on her as just a friend.

dont go and do the one dat will hook u in the throat oh! God alone knows how u get urself into these situations


ure right  Grin Grin
Posted: at 14-07-2008 01:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yemmight at 14-07-2008 02:19 PM (15 years ago)
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I never planned having anything to do with her, but what I am saying is that people should share their experience if any how they have handled such situation and if it worked well.  We speak on phone, I gave advice where necessary etc so no evil plan @ all.

Posted: at 14-07-2008 02:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- philomena87 at 14-07-2008 02:23 PM (15 years ago)
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well i havent...
Posted: at 14-07-2008 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- honeychick at 14-07-2008 07:43 PM (15 years ago)
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Sure u can if the relationship ends in a good faith......u can still relate....
Posted: at 14-07-2008 07:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- indie at 14-07-2008 07:49 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 02:19 PM
I never planned having anything to do with her, but what I am saying is that people should share their experience if any how they have handled such situation and if it worked well.  We speak on phone, I gave advice where necessary etc so no evil plan @ all.

u beta not
Posted: at 14-07-2008 07:49 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yemmight at 14-07-2008 08:08 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: honeychick on 14-07-2008 07:43 PM
Sure u can if the relationship ends in a good faith......u can still relate....

Well, I dont understand if u said ended well.  If yu are seperated I believe all is not well.  For us her parents insisted that I must get married to a particular time which I believe I was not riped for it that time.  All my efforts to convince them proved abortive.

Posted: at 14-07-2008 08:08 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- yemmight at 14-07-2008 08:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: indie on 14-07-2008 07:49 PM
Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 02:19 PM
I never planned having anything to do with her, but what I am saying is that people should share their experience if any how they have handled such situation and if it worked well.  We speak on phone, I gave advice where necessary etc so no evil plan @ all.

u beta not

Honestly, your responses to my post make laugh.

Posted: at 14-07-2008 08:11 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 14-07-2008 09:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 12:25 PM
I don't know it is right or wrong but i still relate with my ex-girl.  We both seperated 4 years ago and wr still talked.  Though she's married and with a kid now.  Sometimes I have to fight temptation not to ask for what we use to enjoy but anyone in here to share experience and any issue against it?

Ain't nothing wrong with it....................but u still get the temptation of wanting to sleep with her, then i would have to say no in your case ...let her move on.
Posted: at 14-07-2008 09:11 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yemmight at 15-07-2008 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 14-07-2008 09:11 PM
Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 12:25 PM
I don't know it is right or wrong but i still relate with my ex-girl.  We both seperated 4 years ago and wr still talked.  Though she's married and with a kid now.  Sometimes I have to fight temptation not to ask for what we use to enjoy but anyone in here to share experience and any issue against it?

Ain't nothing wrong with it....................but u still get the temptation of wanting to sleep with her, then i would have to say no in your case ...let her move on.

I will never do that to her.  I have not had private visitation with her.  At least I have managed that very well even with the temptation.

Posted: at 15-07-2008 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- LayifaKpe at 27-07-2008 06:38 PM (15 years ago)
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I do relate with 99% of dem all.

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:38 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 27-07-2008 06:43 PM (15 years ago)
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it depends on hw our relationship ended.and if he's ready to be just a friend.
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- chikamama at 27-07-2008 06:48 PM (15 years ago)
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where is the problem?Huh???
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:48 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- LayifaKpe at 27-07-2008 06:50 PM (15 years ago)
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No body knows 2morrow...if u won end your relationship, pls try remember say tomorrow e no dey end. she/he be ur governor of state or minister for petrol...

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:50 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- latifah at 27-07-2008 06:52 PM (15 years ago)
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Ex is in the past, we've both moved on.
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:52 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 27-07-2008 06:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: chikamama on 27-07-2008 06:48 PM
where is the problem?Huh???
are u askin me?
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- LayifaKpe at 27-07-2008 06:58 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: latifah on 27-07-2008 06:52 PM
Ex is in the past, we've both moved on.

If him become the minister for Niger Delta, you go begin go finna, militant no go let you oh!

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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