@confessor
I don't actually understand u r trying to get at. But a white person is human too. I don't think colour is a factor. I believe it's wot is inside (personality) not the colour of ur skin. Nuture might be a factor contributing to ur personality. woteva it's ur choice.
I agree with u but there is a wide gap in the way a white lady and a typical niaja guy thinks. Let be realistic. However there is no big deal with it.
ur right there is a big diffrence,...
i also feel that the understanding isnt the same as black with black n white with white
but i still think mixing culture is a good thing ;-)
its just a lot of hard work if it should work out