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« posted : June 29, 2009, 10:26:11 PM » |
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ladies please advise ,if you live with your man abroad , though u are not married ,but he tuck u there will you prefer living together with him or living alone on ur own, u have spent one and half year living with him but no improvement for two of you each time u think of moving from his house to fined ur own apartment money will dry from ur hand,if u are in my shoe will u still stay with him or will u buckle up and live him?
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« posted : June 29, 2009, 11:47:14 PM » |
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I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
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IF IT AIN'T SHEATHED ... IT AIN'T BANGING !!... *st34lth_b14tch* ...
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 02:01:43 AM » |
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B sure of accomodation else wer b4 livin hm.
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 05:03:34 AM » |
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I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
You try, just scared the hell outta me,lol. ok @ poster if there's no improvement in ur relationship then i don't understand why u are still there, at this point it looks like all ur doing is using him which is'nt fair, i will advice that u try to move out as soon as possible b4 things get further complicated than they already are, you could find another roommate when you move so the bills are'nt so high u won't be able to survive on ur own. Good luck.
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 05:12:35 AM » |
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wow!!! sorry ooo... If I were u, I will kiss his ass till I am maybe to save enough money.. afterwards, I will disappear into thin air...
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 05:16:03 AM » |
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wow!!! sorry ooo... If I were u, I will kiss his ass till I am maybe to save enough money.. afterwards, I will disappear into thin air...
So mean...
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 05:17:41 AM » |
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wow!!! sorry ooo... If I were u, I will kiss his ass till I am maybe to save enough money.. afterwards, I will disappear into thin air...
So mean... wotever
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 05:21:54 AM » |
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wow!!! sorry ooo... If I were u, I will kiss his ass till I am maybe to save enough money.. afterwards, I will disappear into thin air...
So mean... wotever lol
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 07:27:44 AM » |
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ladies please advise ,if you live with your man abroad , though u are not married ,but he tuck u there will you prefer living together with him or living alone on ur own, u have spent one and half year living with him but no improvement for two of you each time u think of moving from his house to fined ur own apartment money will dry from ur hand,if u are in my shoe will u still stay with him or will u buckle up and live him?
hmmmm...wot do u mean by *no improvement*...is he abusing u in any way? is it something u cant discuss wit him? why r u always broke? if he had arranged ur travelling wit good intentions nd u want to run away bcos things r tight wit him... so much for love...so much for standing by him wen he needed ur support...so much for friendship... go on...use d easy out by running away.... i should think if he is nt abusing u in any way...dat u should stay wit ur man nd offer him ur support.
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 01:24:43 PM » |
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Thank you!
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 03:07:00 PM » |
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dont mention. 
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 03:49:07 PM » |
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thinking..... brb
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 03:59:50 PM » |
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Says Mr Globe!.. I NO DEY LIE!.. if i lie make GOD bless me beyond my wildest DREAM but if na TRUTH make GOD empty all the BLESSING in HEAVEN on me.
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 07:33:58 PM » |
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I'm in Minnesota and a Naija man from ma church shot his wife dead cos he brought her to America, put her through school, married her and they had babies together. All of a sudden the gurl decided to get a divorce and the court gave her almost everything the man had including his kids. The man lost it an shot her dead !! So if yu know u'll wanna leave ur man ... let him know and yu guys should split amicably !!!
You try, just scared the hell outta me,lol. ok @ poster if there's no improvement in ur relationship then i don't understand why u are still there, at this point it looks like all ur doing is using him which is'nt fair, i will advice that u try to move out as soon as possible b4 things get further complicated than they already are, you could find another roommate when you move so the bills are'nt so high u won't be able to survive on ur own. Good luck. lolzzz ... but its true .... 
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« posted : June 30, 2009, 07:44:23 PM » |
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thinkin.......mombo
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