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« posted : June 28, 2009, 06:26:08 AM » |
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Pls pals...... how do u handle a situation where ur gurls' mum is making passes at u. initially it started with some gift items, then fone calls and then she invited u to dinner at some fast food joint and to my greatest amazement she bluntly told me she's in love with me. (and if u must know her husbby is late).
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 06:34:04 AM » |
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Honestly this has bn disturbing me for awhile now and i just cant bring myself to tell my gurl about it.
the woman even gave a me car gift on my last B/day, though that was b/4 she open up. cos all along i ve always tot she doing all these becos my relationship with her daughter but now am really confused cos i love my gurl and i dont wanna create a disharmony between them.. seriously am considering returning back to the states..... Guys this is a serious issue here and its eating me up inside all these while.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 07:42:40 AM » |
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Oboy use ur teeth count ur tongue(oh plz turn dat around). Tell am say u love her daughter, say as it stands now nothing go fit happen b/w d 2 of una, make her feel like say u wish say u first meet her b4 her daughter, but say now way things dey like dis make una just b good frnds. If dis plan no work then u r on ur own.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 07:49:45 AM » |
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Are u attracted to the dame? forget the fact her husby is late thats no excuse but I smell trouble somewhere along the way.Do u love ur babe or this dame? check ur motives...cus u never know emotions just spring from misconstrued desires.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 08:42:59 AM » |
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seriously, u are no longer a baby, even before she invited u out for dinner, u should have known tsup with her....any way just make sure u are never in a place alone with her.. if u cant bring ur self in telling ur girl, that means u dont love her enough...or u guys are not close.. if u know u love her, and want to keep her (if no be chop and run u dey ) u better let her in on whats happening ...
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 09:36:07 AM » |
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yield not to temptation
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 10:10:49 AM » |
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passing without any temptation cos its a sunday morning
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 12:09:27 PM » |
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You really need to grow some balls and tell ur girl what's up, thinking about it, u don't even know if she's made propositions like this to her daughter's previous love interests. By telling her you would actually be doing more than getting urself out of a tight situation, you will be liberating the poor girl. She might probably hate you for it but its for her own good.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 01:38:11 PM » |
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Just keep telling her you are not intrestd.
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Laughter,d finest antidote 2 worries n frustration.Laugh urself 2 health.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 02:37:54 PM » |
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May be dis is a setup,to test Ur faithfulness to her daugther.Guy stay focus,and knw wht U want.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 02:46:27 PM » |
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poster, if u and your girl are really serious then u shouldn't have a problem talking to her about the situation. if love her as much as u say u do, the tell her wats up. if she leaves u for it, then u werent meant to be together. it may b uncomfortable but its a risk that u are gonna have to take.
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 03:21:52 PM » |
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Pls pals...... how do u handle a situation where ur gurls' mum is making passes at u. initially it started with some gift items, then fone calls and then she invited u to dinner at some fast food joint and to my greatest amazement she bluntly told me she's in love with me. (and if u must know her husbby is late).
l no dey do my mama Age ooo Abeg |
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Be sure yur Sin will find yu Out; Numbers 32:23... Source - Da Holy Bible
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 03:41:54 PM » |
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No temptation bro,
Shes old skull - youre new school, except u like cross-hatching....
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please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capitalization - if you cant find your topic; look in the trash bin -
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 03:57:48 PM » |
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he sounds more like he has a thing for old skool.  |
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« posted : June 28, 2009, 04:16:54 PM » |
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Perhaps a fan
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please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capitalization - if you cant find your topic; look in the trash bin -
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