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« posted : June 07, 2009, 03:14:21 PM »
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You got the Girl of Your Dreams. Gorgeous, Respectful, Innocent.
The Ideal "Take Home To Mama Material!
You guys have been going out for 7 years.
You really Luv her and You both believe that "Sickle Cell"
will not be an issue in your marriage.
Everything is going on fine till your folks hear about
You and Your Girl's Plans.
They Have kicked against it and say it is
only over their dead bodies that it can ever happen.
They have advised BOTH OF YOU TO ?#!BREAK UP?!#.

This is the situation one of my close friends is in rite now.
Could you kind members of this community COMMENT and
ADVISE on what my Good Friend should do!!!???
His Happiness and Joy for Eternity Depends on it  Huh? Huh? Huh?
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« posted : June 20, 2009, 11:35:28 PM »
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What were they doing dating without knowing their genotype? If he is willing to overcome all the things that come with having sickle cell he should go ahead and marry her but he should research properly on it and how she can live a healthy and long life.

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« posted : June 22, 2009, 05:13:18 PM »
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They should also remember their kids.
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« posted : July 02, 2009, 03:25:31 PM »
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wow
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« posted : July 05, 2009, 03:54:39 PM »
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i will advice them not to continue because of thei yet unborn children
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« posted : July 05, 2009, 05:10:44 PM »
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UUUhhnn!!! a though decision, but just has to do with adding up reality en spiritualism. wat awl just say is that lets God reighn supercides. 
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 11:30:28 AM »
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Well it is not proper to go head with the marriage, because of the unborn children. Why will a man decide to jump into fire, when he can avoid it.
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 12:02:14 PM »
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As i dey, i can marry that guy because another wahala in the future. at the  end of the dday, they will dislove themselves.
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 01:39:19 PM »
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it depends on him.if u love her and u can sacrifice for her why not.Afterall love is all abt sacrifice.We need love and give love in return.I want u to ans this questions,can u stand the crisis when it comes?can u spend sleepless nyts in d hospital?what abt the drugs?how do u want to handle her when she's carrying ur baby?Marriage is a life time comitment,not a contract.If u can cope with all the stress thats associated with sickcell then go ahead bro.If u cant then talk things oer with herand be realistic.I know u are in love at times we get selfish when it comes to decision taking.7 years is a long time.let me ask u this question,did u just discover dat she has sickle cell anaemia?if not why did it take u so long to address the situation?i'll advice u talk it over with her.Make her understand why you cant marry her.On the other hand if you feel strongly for her go ahead and marry her.
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 02:09:14 PM »
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it depends on d guys status. if he is also a sickler then they shld just forget it. cos if they go ahead they wil regret der decisions later. the kids r going to suffer and die eventually. so if they r both sicklers no need to get married. better for d unborn kids.
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 02:50:14 PM »
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if u truly love her and if she is good to u pls marry her happiness comes first
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 02:55:32 PM »
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Tell ur friend not to risk it if both of them are carriers - that is AS, they will definitely not like the consequencies.
But if they are not, let him try and talk things over the with the parents and let them understand.

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« posted : July 10, 2009, 03:11:43 PM »
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well if u re asking me to advice you what i will say you is no and the reason is because of the future of both your children and the entire family.To make it clear to you i have a friend who is going through the same problem at the moment and i must tell you he is not finding things easy at all and this has turn the family apart.I think this is the right time to swallow the right bitter pill than avoid it in the name of love that will not take you far .You can also consult an expert on this issue because i am not even related to none.
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 03:11:59 PM »
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it depends if the guy's genotype is AA they can marry themself.   
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« posted : July 10, 2009, 03:59:27 PM »
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My advice for your friend is that he should go ahead and marry the girl if he truly love her and if your friend¨s genotype is "AA",then,both of them are perfect for each other.i.e non of their offspring will be "SS".Moreover,your friend should trust in God for financial provision cos he will need enough money to take good care of her. tell ur friend to go ahead.
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