h.i.v. test cause trouble

Date: 28-03-2009 3:48 pm (15 years ago) | Author: stalker on d lose
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- at 28-03-2009 03:48 PM (15 years ago)
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omg
NO LONG STORY YH

ok on the fone to ma man
asked if he wanted to come to the health clinic with me for ma regular test and check up, he said yh
den i suggested, dat he might aswel take an H.I.V test while we dare
he just switched , he was shouting and swearing so as usual i hunged up
he called bak and i igorned the calll so he txt to say sori and ask if he can call me bak i txt him bak to ask if he had H.I.V
he said no
i dont belive
and this caused trouble coz i anit talkin to him or having SEX with him untill he takes the test AND show me the results
i dont knw wat to do with coz i knw him very
can trust him wen it come to stuff like dis

Posted: at 28-03-2009 03:48 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- McBona at 28-04-2009 01:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Health 1st.

Well, it depends on how U present the issue to him.  Bc, if not ganished wiv re~espect & making Ur words look harmonious... definitely, every complete Man must react to that.

That's by the way...  If anyone is 100% sure that he/she is Vinereal-disease-free. . . then should agree to go for the test.  But if spinning nagative to that, then should be allowed to remain... (no sex). Cool Cool
Posted: at 28-04-2009 01:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akxrech at 26-05-2009 02:41 PM (14 years ago)
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trust whatever after all anti-retroviral dey availabul ha aha aha  Grin Grin Grin Grin ;Din large quantity oh!!! no long tin
Posted: at 26-05-2009 02:41 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- naomipretty at 31-05-2009 10:47 AM (14 years ago)
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NO H.i.v test no sex.
Posted: at 31-05-2009 10:47 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- nollylove at 2-06-2009 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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 Shocked
Posted: at 2-06-2009 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- GlamourPuss at 3-07-2009 12:23 AM (14 years ago)
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hmm...if reli cares abtu den hes gona go 4 hiv test
Posted: at 3-07-2009 12:23 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SexyJuly at 20-07-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Babe, He's not serious!
Posted: at 20-07-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivydoll at 21-07-2009 04:47 PM (14 years ago)
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IT CAUSES TROUBLE THAT WAS THEN NOT NOW THAT THERE IS A DRUGS FOR IT.AT LEAST THERE IS ANTIRETROVIRAL DRUGS FOR THAT
Posted: at 21-07-2009 04:47 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- portiphar at 21-07-2009 05:27 PM (14 years ago)
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well, love is above all things and you should trust him no matter what...im not advocating sex, but maybe you both should go for counselling abi?
Posted: at 21-07-2009 05:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 24-07-2009 03:42 PM (14 years ago)
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if he is sure he doesnt have the virus let him take the test

Posted: at 24-07-2009 03:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ChocolateDrop at 24-07-2009 09:57 PM (14 years ago)
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I agree with SexyJuly   ..NEXT that dude fast.
 
Posted: at 24-07-2009 09:57 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- childsupport at 26-07-2009 02:52 PM (14 years ago)
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even if he takes the test , remember , it takes about three months for the virus to appear in the blood stream .. so ,after the test , still do it with a CD...

never leave out the third party in sex -----

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Posted: at 26-07-2009 02:52 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- fem2008 at 27-07-2009 08:51 PM (14 years ago)
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you have to think twice babe,
coz i don't think is serious
Posted: at 27-07-2009 08:51 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- melax4u at 27-07-2009 10:52 PM (14 years ago)
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If he really love he should do whatever thing you demand from him,but since he insisted something is wrong somewhere so be careful with him.
Posted: at 27-07-2009 10:52 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mic2000 at 28-07-2009 05:06 AM (14 years ago)
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na by force?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?? must that be an issue b4 u marry him abeg mak i hear word
Posted: at 28-07-2009 05:06 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Savelife4real at 28-07-2009 09:08 AM (14 years ago)
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NA YA HEALTH BE WEALTH, NO TAKE AM GAMBLE OOOOOOOOOOH, PERSON WEN NO GET LIFE< NO FIT CHOP LIFE.

Posted: at 28-07-2009 09:08 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- uwem_P at 28-07-2009 10:13 AM (14 years ago)
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HIV is very real so anybody who refuses to do the test before marrying you does not love you and does not trust himself hence cannot wholly trust you. Though we know of the window period but he should do it b4 marriage. tell him you will do it together and if he still refused please leave him he is not yours. Prevention is better than cure.
Posted: at 28-07-2009 10:13 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Temmysam at 28-07-2009 10:32 AM (14 years ago)
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no text no sex.
Posted: at 28-07-2009 10:32 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- inegbenijie at 28-07-2009 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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presentation and approach matters in how we address issues, this is what u discuss wit him face to face than on the fone, talk to him  (face 2 face) and make him understand how important it means to both of u to trust eachoda, not that im advocatin sex espeacially sex b4 marriage, sex is worth waitin for.  take charge
Posted: at 28-07-2009 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- elijahdavis at 28-07-2009 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Well hv u done ur own test?  are both of u christians and u belong to a church? if yes then start counseling from he will told on how to go abt the test.

but skip sex before marriage so u can earn ur respect b/4 God and that man ok---God bless u
Posted: at 28-07-2009 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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