Advice needed! <br /> I am 26yr & my guy is 30yr. We met si...

Advice needed!
I am 26yr & my guy is 30yr. We met since 2010 till date, we plan to get married this year by April,2014, We arrange for our traditional marry we both travel to the village,the day of ceremony he came with his family members to my village becus we frm different state in Nigeria. He is Abia while am Akwa Ibom, The both family gather together for the bride price to be paid. Suddenly there was misundstanding b/w the both family that he did not buy things complete he had to top money on whatever he bring. So after a lot of argumt the brideprice was rejected frm him the both family was not happy so he has to go wit his people witout de wife. Now my family n my mother say de marriage is cancels, that I should not marry him again even do he
come back to pay de brideprice. But they collected everythings apart frm the brideprice.
Now we both came back to Lagos n is abeging me to forgive him wich I did that he will go n pay every ting they ask him to pay.

pls advice me on what to do,I love him n I want him too.

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